Some dogs are like River, they move into their house, and while they don’t fill the hole of the lost pup, they suddenly and seamlessly begin to build new parts of their parents’ hearts, and ease their pain.
And
then there is my friend Amber’s successor Jake. It seems, hopefully,
after 9 months of illness and aggression, Jake’s Mom has learned how
drama and healing can make the bond between dog and Mom even stronger.
Here is his story.
When
Amber sadly went to the Bridge her family was in a stage of transition.
There was a new house, employment changes, and many hurdles to
overcome before they were ready for a new pup. Thanks to our friends
Jackson’s and Morgan’s Mom Aunt Jane, Jake went from being Jackson’s
foster brother to being the new dog in Amber’s home.
His
parents got the impression that Jake might be a bit or trouble on his
first walk when he was invited into a neighbor’s house for a proper
homecoming and pooped in their entryway. From that moment on his
parent’s should have known his pup hood would be more challenging than
Amber’s.
Jake
showed a puppy’s speed and desire for food when his Mom dropped a
single coffee bean and Jake lasered in on it and sucked it down. His
Mom decided not to take him to a vet for a coffee bean, which was a good
decision, because soon Jake would be well known at the vets.
For
two months there were only normal puppy issues with Jake but on
Mother’s Day his Mom informed her online friends that the little pink
pimple that Jake arrived with had gotten bigger, scabbed over then bled,
scabbed over again and got much bigger. A trip to the vets was in
order.
The
lump needed to be removed and the vet said that he had a histiocytoma.
Jake proved the be a very patient patient. He also had a previously
diagnosed infection in his anal glands treated by having antibiotics
stuck up his butt. He went home stitched up and a little loopy. His
parents hoped his vet trips would be few and far between.
Soon the good news came in that the tumor was benign. He was ready to get his stitches out.
Then
came the leg issues. He had trouble with with his rear right leg and
his front left leg, which caused him to hobble around the house. He was
put on non-steroid anti inflammatory drugs to help. The vets had hoped
it would work itself out but during Jake’s puphood few things worked
themselves out.
Perhaps
understandably, for a young with so many health issues, Jake began to
act out and show aggression. He nipped at his Mom’s nephew. He
growled at some nice elderly women who came to visit, and barked through
most of their time together, even while wearing a citronella collar.
With his Mom starting work soon she was worried about having a stranger
take care of Jake, not knowing how he would act with them given his
unpredictability with strangers. .
To
help with some of his behavioral issue Willie’s Mom Sandy sent Jake a
Gentle Leader to control him on walks. It stopped him from lunging and
pulling when he saw strangers, although Jakes still exercised his
freedom to bark. Also his Mom bought, and used, the dreaded clicker,
which made him more cooperative to her wishes, although her still nipped
at her toes when he wanted to play.
But
even with the Leader Jake was still a challenge when he met people. He
would spin around on his leash in what his Mom called a “demonic fit”
when he saw a stranger. When a woman saw him, and wanted to pet him,
his Mom suggested she let Jake sniff her. She put down her hand for
Jake to sniff and he nipped at her. His parents began to dread walking
him because of his barking and lunging (or, in dog terms, doing what is
called “The Pocket.” He also barked at every sound in the house (also
called the Pocket) and wore out the battery on his bark control. He
also played rough, snapping at his Daddy’s hand and breaking the skin as
he tried to grab a toy.
Then
began another round of vet visits. He had tummy issues and skin
issues, chewing the fur off his front legs. One trip to the vet was for
chewing the fringe off a rug. Then he began to chew the fur on his tail
and his paws. He had to wear the dreaded cone of shame. He didn’t
take to wearing it well, standing in a corner and staring. His parents
resorted to praying over him, which gave him the strength to finally to
get up and eat. But he still had occasional tummy problems and had to
wear the cone to keep him from chewing his fur.
Jake
did improve slowly, although he did develop a strange crusty film on
his nipples and was still very itchy, The Prednisone he was taking did
make him drink and pee more. During on of these pee trips his Mom
discovered he ate an entire paper towel.
Then
his limping began again with his front leg coming out from under him
until he was walking like a tripaw. He did get to sleep in the big bed
because he parents thought this would keep him out of trouble (known in
the dog world as pulling a Pocket) but when he got out he couldn’t get
back in. When it came time to take him to the vet he started walking
better. It was determined he had a foot infection which led to more
expensive vet visits.
Jake
finally began to stop itching. His foot got better. And, after months
of research, his Mom discovered natural products that helped with the
itching, put him on a healthy diet, gave him lots of baths, and with
lots of patience the itching subsided, and, as the itching subsided, so
did the behavioral issues. Also a stricter training technique taught
Jake that he was not the boss of the house.
But
Jake still had what his Mom called the Terrier Tirades. Her stepson
and grandson came for a visit. At first he did his barking madness and
was protective of his family. His Mom knew that someone was mean to
Jake before she got him and his accepting strangers would take time.
But my Mom can tell you having your grandchildren and your dog not get
along makes things very hard
Now,
after nine months of experimenting, training, bathing, praying, and
patience Jake is becoming the wonderful pup everyone knew he could be.
He did a 3 ½ hour drive with only minimal barking. He sat on his Mom’s
lap where he now feels secure. He didn’t nip at the grandchildren or
lunge at anyone, and even walked off leash. He rode happily in a golf
cart in the arms of one of the grandchildren. The only problem was with
another dog, but Jake is on the right track, and has come a long way,
so I am sure he will vanquish this to.
It
has been a long, hard road for Jake and his parents but the end is in
sight. A big tip of the tail to all of them, and to Amber, who was
watching over them, helping every step of the way.
There
have been a lot of hard earned victories in Jake’s fight to be the
perfect dog for his parents, and now that he is getting there, their
bond will be even stronger.
Bless Jake and his family. Have a marvellous Monday.
ReplyDeleteBest wishes Molly
What a wonderful story about Jake. We're so happy that many of his health issues are over too. Poor little man. We wish Jake continued success. To his Mom, we send thanks for NEVER giving up on him!!
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Lily Belle & Muffin
Good news about Jake, what a sweetheart
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Love can heal everything. Reba had some Terror (terrier) in her too. For her first 5 or 6 years she was a crazy dog running all over the place, not listening to commands, barking like an idiot at everything including leaves falling off the trees, showing teeth when people approached, feeling her teeth when offering treats..... and more things I don't remember anymore. She was estimated to be 5 months old when she was found roaming the streets of Dallas, TX. She had been adopted out and kept for 3 weeks by another family then returned to the SPCA. That's when I found her. It took a lot of patience and discipline and consistency and LOVE but she became the sweetest and well behaved dog (except for becoming Houdini when the gate was open) that I ever had. Jake will recognize his wayward ways too with the love and trust that his new Mom and Dad give him. He's come so far already. Good Boy Jake!
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