Last
week I was lucky to have no friends come to the Bridge, but this week,
sadly, I had two. I went from a no header to a double header. One we
knew was coming, and one was shocking, but both were very sad.
The
first was the shocking one. We had not heard from our friend Totti
from Hong King for awhile. I so enjoyed his blogs. He lived in an
exotic part of the world and taught us so much about life on the other
side of the planet. Totti and Foxy were two treasured friends, and even
if many months passed without hearing from them, it was always a treat
to see them on our blog page.
We
had no indication that Totti was on his way. After swearing him in I
asked him what had happened and he said he had an ordinary upset stomach
for a few days, the vet came to his house to visit (he really does live
on the other side of the world) and ran some tests, but didn’t think it
was serious. On Monday Totti’s tummy was bad and his Mommy came home
to make him some ground beef but before it was finished the Angels came
down and told Totti his time on the mortal side of the Bridge was over.
He
protested, we all protest, some better than others, but only the
luckiest of us buy themselves a few more days. Totti did achieve the
passing we all want, at home with his loved ones, even if such a passing
is hardest on our families.
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Totti
was his Mom’s first dog. Like a young girl who becomes an aunt, she
was nervous about holding Totti at first, but when she did he snuggled
in and stole her heart. When she took time off from work Totti was her
constant companion going for long walks with her. Soon Foxy joined the
family and a well known social media duo was born.
I
showed Totti how to watch his family in the River of Life and he read
his Mom’s blog about him, but soon his eyes clouded over with tears so I
finished is for him: “I miss him a lot a lot. His ashes came back
today. Paul and I decided to put on the chest with his lovely photo. It
is right besides our wedding photo. He was one of our lovely family
member and he will always be missed by me. He will always in my mind.
Totti, see you at the rainbow bridge later. Take care I miss and love
Totti forever !”
And Totti wanted me to tell his family he misses and loves them too and will be waiting.
The second friend to join me this week was Khan from the Malatesta clan.
Khan
had been growing sicker each day, unable to get to his feet. His Mom
has had health issues too, and the vet agreed to come to her house
(perhaps I am the one who lives on the other side of the world) to ease
Khan’s passage. But Khan wanted no part of that. When he saw the vet
he suddenly had the strength to get off the ground, and run to his Mom,
and they both cried, knowing this would be goodbye.
But
the truth was, with his Mom and his human brother having so many health
issues, they needed an angel more than a dog, and Khan realized this,
and he too is at the River of Life watching over his loved ones, with
the rest of us dogs.
There
are plenty of wet paws here, from dogs reaching into the River trying
to touch their families, and wet eyes too as we watch their pain. But
we are safe here.
We are safe and waiting.
(Thank you to Tommy Tunes for the photos)
So sad. Breaks my heart. Fly free Angels.
ReplyDeleteJust so sad. We have leaky eyes.
ReplyDeleteHave a marvellous Monday and Happy St Patrick's Day.
Best wishes Molly
It's so heartbreaking to have to say goodbye. That kind of pain never goes away.
ReplyDeleteoh such heartbreak :(
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